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Addressing Teenage Mental Health Struggles: A Parent’s Guide

Written by Stonewater Recovery | Jul 15, 2024 8:13:30 PM

Parenting is a lifelong job where success is often measured by the well-being of your children. That’s why the teenage years can be so challenging. Watching your child navigate the tumultuous terrain of growth, identity, and independence is no easy feat. Especially if they experience mental health struggles. Recognizing the early warning signs and knowing how to respond can make all the difference in your teen's life. Let’s delve into how you can identify and address these challenges effectively.

 

Early Warning Signs of Teenage Mental Health Problems  

 

Mood swings and unpredictable behavior is par for the course when it comes to typical adolescent development. So how do you know what is normal teenage angst and what is a mental health issue? These certain signs may indicate a deeper struggle:

  • Changes in Mood: While moodiness is common, if your son or daughter is persistently sad, irritable, or anxious for more than a week, check in on them. 

  • Withdrawal: If your teen suddenly loses interest in hobbies or activities they once enjoyed or starts isolating themselves from family and friends, it’s worth investigating.

  • Academic Performance: A sudden drop in grades, lack of interest in school, or frequent absences can signal something is wrong.

  • Changes in Sleep & Eating Patterns: Any significant changes in sleeping or eating habits, such as insomnia, excessive sleeping, loss of appetite, or binge eating should be concerning to you as a parent. 

  • Substance Abuse: While teens may experiment with drugs and alcohol, they may be using these substances as a coping mechanism and can be a sign of an underlying mental health issue.

  • Physical Complaints: Frequent headaches, stomachaches, or other physical symptoms without a clear medical cause can be linked to mental health struggles like anxiety and depression

  • Self-Harm: Any sign of self-injury, such as cutting or burning, requires immediate attention. 

 

How to Recognize There is a Problem

 

As a parent, you know your child best. You raised them and spent more time with them than anyone else. Trust your instincts if you feel something isn’t right! Here’s how to approach the situation when you feel something is off:

  • Open Communication: Create a home environment where your teen feels comfortable talking about their feelings. Regular check-ins can help you gauge their emotional state and normalize talking openly. 

  • Observe Patterns: Look for patterns or changes in behavior over time rather than isolated incidents. We all have bad days but bad weeks or months should be paid attention to. 

  • Seek Input from Others: Teachers, coaches, and other adults who interact with your teen regularly may notice changes that you haven’t. They also may have insight or a different perspective on things than you would as a parent. 

  • Use Screening Tools: Online questionnaires and screening tools can help identify potential mental health issues. Websites like the National Institute of Mental Health offer valuable resources.

Getting Appropriate Mental Health Treatment

 

If you've identified a potential issue, it's important not to wait around hoping for things to get better on their own. Seek professional help. Here are steps to ensure your teen gets the support they need:

  • Consult with a Doctor: Talk with your child’s primary care doctor as soon as possible. They may be able to provide an assessment, give you their medical opinion on the situation, and offer referrals to adolescent treatment programs and adolescent mental health professionals. 

  • Find a Mental Health Professional: Look for therapists or counselors who specialize in adolescent mental health. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and other evidence-based treatments can be highly effective.https://www.verywellmind.com/therapy-for-teens-2610410 

  • Consider Medication: In some cases, medication may be necessary. Work closely with a psychiatrist to find the right meds.

  • Involve the School: Many schools have resources like counselors or psychologists who can support your teen.

 

Encouraging a Supportive Environment

 

Creating a supportive home environment is essential for your teen’s recovery and ongoing well-being:

  • Promote Open Dialogue: Keep the lines of communication open. Let your teen know they can talk to you about anything.

  • Educate Yourself: Learn about mental health issues and treatment options. The more you know, the better you can support your teen.

  • Encourage Healthy Habits: Promote a balanced lifestyle that includes physical activity, healthy eating, and sufficient sleep.

  • Be Patient: Recovery can take time. Be patient and consistent in your support.

 

Adolescent Treatment at Stonewater

 

If you suspect your teen is struggling with mental health issues or substance abuse, don’t hesitate to reach out for help. Early intervention can make a profound difference. We know what it’s like to have a child that struggles. We also know what it’s like to watch that child overcome and lead a healthier, happier life. Call us today.